3.21.2006
well its not valentines day, but im going to talk about love anyway. i think love involves many fundamental aspects such as intimacy, commitment, passion and more. i am sure that u have heard this phrase that goes ''love is blind'', im telling you love is not blind but we can be blinded by love because of our incapability to consider the other facts, like are we stable?, or are just looking for immediate gratification that it immediate pleasure which usually involve physical contact. for instance, u might have fallen for this charming young lad but he is penniless, will u still cling? well, unless all u want is a one night stand but for a marriage, i think not. ur not going to survive solely based on love. reality check; u need money and some serious planning.
i obtained this with courtesy of wikipedia.
Types
Courtly love – a late medieval conventionalized code prescribing conduct and emotions of ladies and their lovers.
Erotic love – an aesthetic focused on sexual desire.
Free love – sexual relations according to choice and unrestricted by marriage.
Platonic love – a close relationship in which sexual desire is non existent or has been suppressed or sublimated.
Puppy love – transitory affection felt by a boy or girl for one of the opposite or same sex according to one's sexuality.
Religious love – devotion to one’s deity or theology.
Romantic love – affection characterized by a mix of emotional and sexual desire.
Unrequited love – affection and desire not reciprocated or returned.
too much of an information huh?
so which category does ur relationship falls under?
or maybe this one
serious and intelligent love- commitment and affection towards each other.
i dun believe in physical contact to express love(eg; will u sleep with me? if not im not yours anymore), coz i think love itself is sacred, it could be referred to many different areas and theres no such thing as a short-term relationships or part-time relationship,unless theres a sudden change of situation which could not be avoided. if u think that things is very blurry rite now, be friends and then close friends, set some limits and boundaries and real relationship will gradually develop. if not, be sweet and gracious and take a step back & if possible dont embarass the other party if things doesnt work unless its necessary(thats when ego comes in,well sometimes its just too much right?)plus u know how keep the situation under control.Be a lady or a gentleman not a kid. to the ladies; end it in style.
posted @ 12:54 AM
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